Why I Started Sleeping with Another Man; Married Lady Confesses

 

I’ve been married 10 years but my husband behaves like he’s 90 years old and we haven’t had sex in a long time. Now I’ve found someone better than him and want more. Am I to be blame?

I’m 36 and a primary school teacher. My husband is 38 and works in IT. We’ve got two girls aged 11 and nine and have been married for nearly 12 years.

For the last year or two it’s been grim. My husband bores and irritates me half to death. I’m sick of the tedious grind of the classroom and the even worse grind back at home.

I was so uptight I almost exploded with rage when the head teacher said we had an extra staff meeting after school to talk about our OFSTED inspection. I moaned to a colleague at break time. He’s the only man on the staff and he teaches the children PE.

He’s gorgeous and sexy and we always got on well, but I thought out of bounds to a mother like me.

I phoned my husband to say I’d be late, he said ok. In the end the head teacher had to deal with an emergency with a student with family problems so the meeting was off after all. I looked at my colleague and to my surprise he just smiled and said, “Fancy a drink?”

I didn’t think twice. We went to a pub down the road and I felt almost sick with excitement. I think we both knew that we both wanted more than a drink.

We chatted over a glass of wine and he told me his marriage was pretty much dead. He’s got two little boys and he loves them to bits, but he’s bored with his wife and is desperate for change.

We finished our drinks and had sex in his car before heading for home. No one suspected a thing. We’re in the same boat but we’ve found a way out of the boring routine.

We meet up for sex once a week but the problem now is I’ve fallen in love.

Please what do I do? Should I just call it quits with my husband and move in with my teacher boyfriend?

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Henry Okah found guilty of 2010 Independence Day bomb attacks

 

A South African court this morning convicted the leader of the Movement for the Emancipation of the Niger Delta (MEND), Henry Okah, of masterminding twin car bombings during Nigeria's 50th independence celebrations in October 2010 that killed twelve people and injured several others.

He was also found guilty of masterminding the two explosions in Warri in March 2010.

Henry Okah was found guilty on all counts and faces a minimum sentence of life in prison.

I found shameful hubby fondling niece on sofa

I CAUGHT my husband and his niece with their hands all over one another on the settee and it turned out they’d had sex. I can’t get over the sight of them together.

We’re both 55 and our two children are grown up. We worked hard at our own business and our life was very comfortable. We were very close and in love.

Then my husband’s niece suddenly became homeless with two children when her partner left. We invited her to stay with us while she sorted her life out.

It was a grim time but then she started to turn a corner. Around the time of her birthday I decided to cook a celebration dinner for us.

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I was dog-tired afterwards and said I was going to bed. I could hear them chatting then suddenly it went very quiet. I thought they had fallen asleep and went to see.

I can’t tell you my utter shock and disgust when I saw them half undressed and all over each other. I screamed and they jumped apart. We all went to bed after a lot of tears and shouting.

I quizzed them next day and it turned out that they’d had sex the day before. She came to apologise the next day but finally admitted her real issue was she was terrified what would happen if I told anyone.

I kept quiet, she moved out and now has a new partner. We have a large, close family and she now floats around like a saint at family gatherings showing him off. Sometimes I feel like throwing a bombshell into her smugness and telling everyone, but that won’t change what happened.

My husband is sorry and ashamed but he won’t talk about it, which is difficult because we work together. We’re like robots. It’s six months on and I still can’t get over it.

See Why Most Men Fall Asleep After Having Sex

 

It’s a problem that leaves many women, especially house wives, frustrated most nights. But scientists have given men an excuse for sleeping immediately after sex.

Men cannot help but fall asleep straight after indulging in sexual activity because their brains are ordering them to do so, a new study has revealed.

In the research, scientists have claimed the male brain is programmed to switch off after Orgasm. In contrast, women stay alert so are more likely to be left staring at the ceiling in frustration.

Men were scanned during and after climax and it was found that the entire cerebral cortex, the brain’s “thinking” part, shut down during orgasm.

Then two other areas, the cingulate cortex and amygdala, triggered the deactivation of all sexual desire.

“These experiments give us the first hints as to what happens in the brain during orgasm,” the Mirror quoted Serge Stoleru, a French government -scientist, as saying.

“For women it seems to be different,” he said. Stoleru said that women do not have such a strong refractory period – which is a recovery phase when the body calms down.

That leaves them wondering why their partners have lost all interest when they want more of it.