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BREAKING: Egypt military places travel ban on Morsi as NSA claims coup is underway

A military coup is underway in Egypt, according to President Mohamed Morsi’s national security adviser. Security forces have placed a travel ban on President Morsi and a number of top Muslim Brotherhood officials, according to AFP sources.

FG set to merge EFCC, ICPC, others; plan to restructure NYSC

EFCC Chairman, Ibrahim Lamorde and ICPC Chairman, Mr. Ekpo Nta
(Photo: Punch)

Anti-graft agencies, the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), the Independent Corrupt Practices (ICP) and other related offences Commission will all merge under one umbrella, the Federal Government has announced.

UNILAG VC ADDRESSES WORLD PRESS CONFERENCE AHEAD OF GOLDEN JUBILEE CONVOCATION CEREMONIES

The Vice-Chancellor of the University of Lagos, Professor Rahamon A. Bello, FAEng on Monday, January 28, 2013 addressed newsmen ahead of the Golden Jubilee Convocation Ceremonies of the University. The Press Conference was attended by Principal Officers, staff and students of the University along with representatives of various media organisations. Below is the full text of the Vice-Chancellor’s address at the World Press Conference:

See Photos and Latest Additions to the New BB 10

      

Some folks are saying it's kind of copy of Nokia Lumia but hey, it's BlackBerry and you get the pinging thing! Also, for the first time, the new BB 10 is designed for touch devices.

There is also a new camera that offers features such as composite photos that snap several images in quick succession so you can merge them into one idealized photo.

Sexy stars, Lynxxx and Oge Okoye cover Red Sheet Magazine

 

Special Advice for Single Ladies (A MUST READ)

 

A loyal reader forwarded this interesting piece to Olufamous.com. Enjoy:

1. Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady... So instead of sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house wife category... 

2. Never let the sweet talks of MOST guys deceive you, sometimes all they just want is to have easy access between your legs and run off thereafter.

3. Remove the mentality from your mind that guys will keep springing up to approach you. The older you get by the day, the less toasters you will have.

4. Playing 'too' hard to get is the worst thing you should ever start, remember, Nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE (Husband).

5. Never extort things from a guy you don't love, guys always have ways of paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total 'PAID' STRANGERS....BE CAREFUL.

6. Never be deceived you can trap a guy through sex. A man will also return to his wife who sex starves him for years once he loves and trust her. You can never win a man over with your body.

7. If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY from him, don't complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer...

8. Don't be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing to an 80year old woman they want to get intimate with.

9. A guy always taking you to the SILVER-BIRD, FAST FOOD (pizza in or galitos), MALL AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTER/NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that he loves you, if he doesn't care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER then you are just his 'SOCIAL MATE' and nothing else....

10. If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house and do his laundry, then just know you are his "executive house help".

11. If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you.

12. Don't always change the tv station from NTV to CHANNEL O, MTV and Fashion TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can help out.

13. If the only places he doesn't frown when you enter are his bedroom and kitchen then know you aren't welcome (only being used).

Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end up being emotionally abused are the ones at the receiving end... Always with open arms, requesting for something and ready to receive... The more you widen your arms, the more he widens your legs.

A grown up guy who gives the excuse about his parents being wild when he brings female visitors to the house is a sign that HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND HAS INTRODUCED HER TO HIS PARENTS ALREADY... ADVISE YOURSELF...

FINALLY, I ALWAYS SAY THIS AND WILL REPEAT IT AGAIN... It's better to be sitting in a taxi smiling happily than to be in your husband’s fresh air conditioned BMW x6 with bruised eyes wearing a fresh Gucci shades alongside a Burberry scarf....

JUST REMEMBER, THAT DATING A RICH MAN DOESN'T GUARANTEE HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE... MONEY IS
NOT EVERYTHING..... MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS WHAT MATTERS MOST!

Sexual pleasure points for adults!

 

One major factor that causes fights between couples, and which is hardly voiced out but often drives either of them away from home into the waiting hands of extra marital affairs, is sex. A lot of beautiful marriages have been ruined just because partners were not sexually satisfied and they found it difficult or unholy to speak out. Most of those who do not have extra marital affairs suffer in silence and die slowly of emotional trauma.

This is one reason that has driven me to go the extra mile to discover how such people can be helped. The most guilty are the religious ones who are highly inexperienced and ignorant of what sex is and does in marriage. This group of people are the most at risk when confronted with sexual harassment. Have you wondered why many religious leaders are involved in sexual scandals today? Don’t go too far seeking for an answer; I can bet it’s due to lack of sexual satisfaction.

Please read this piece I stumbled on as I searched for the way forward vis-a-vis sexual satisfaction:

“I’ve been married for 12 years, but my husband behaves like he’s 90 years old and we haven’t had sex in a long time. Now, I’ve found someone better than him in bed and I want more. Am I to blame?”

Now the question is not who to blame or who not to blame, but what went wrong. And the answer is sexual dissatisfaction.

This is why today, I am giving a piece on how to give your spouse sexual satisfaction through stimulating multiple pleasure points on his or her body, but especially her, because she is the one who needs that extra touch for sexual pleasure (this is not debatable; it’s a fact of life). What you are about to read was received from Jack Grave, a female pleasure guru. But, I have tried to edit it in order to make it acceptable as much as possible, to the conservative or the religious ones who may find the unedited version offensive. I hope it will be worth the effort and produce the desired result- sexual satisfaction per excellence.

Men and women have multiple pleasure points that produce great sexual pleasure in them. For men, it pretty much begins and ends with the penis. Sure, you could argue that there’s a male G-spot, buttocks, and other stimulating points in a man. But even so, these pale in significance to the many ways a woman can be pleasured.

One of the things that make women especially unique is that they have many different ways in which they can be sexually pleasured. Such pleasure points on a woman include the vagina, clitoris, G-spot, nipples and anus. Stimulating one or more of these points gives your spouse great pleasure in bed. But what makes you a god in the bedroom is when you learn to master stimulating more than one of these pleasure points at the same time.

Stimulating certain combinations can be more complex than others, but let me give you a few easy ones to try out:

Reverse cow-girl with manual clitoris stimulation
Cowgirl is a sex position where the man lies on his back and the woman straddles him. Reverse cowgirl is very similar except that the woman faces away from the man. Once in this position, the man can then sit up and with his hands can reach around the front of her and stimulate her clitoris manually, therefore stimulating both her vagina and clitoris at the same time.

Doggy style while she arches her back
Doggy style, as you probably know, is a sex position where the man enters the woman from behind, while she positions herself on her hands and the knees. Once in this position, you get your partner to arch her back. This forces her G-spot onto your penis, and therefore in this position, you are stimulating both her vagina and the G-spot.  Extra tip: as the man, try leaning back while in this position for extra G-spot stimulation.

Missionary while orally stimulating her nipples
Some women love to have their nipples pleasured. If your partner is one of these women, this simple approach alone can give her intense orgasm. The missionary position is when the woman lies on her back with the man on top. Once in this position, lick her nipples while having sex and she will be in for a world of pleasure.

Stated above are just three ways in which you can use the technique of multiple stimulations to achieve a great effect. As you can imagine, there are a lot more, but giving just the three above will take you a long way.

On a final note, the key is to try out different approaches because every woman is different. As you go on, observe how she reacts carefully. If she starts to wriggle, squirm and moan (in a positive way), it probably means she’s liking what you’re doing to her, so keep doing it. Keep doing what is working until you bring her to orgasm.

Timaya turns his G-Wagon to a taxi for video shoot

 

That's a Mercedes Benz G Wagon Timaya turned to a taxi for the video shoot of his song, Manogede ft Terry G. The music video which they shot yesterday and today around Obanikoro and Gbagada area of Lagos, was directed by Gini.

Rick Ross crashes Rolls Royce into building after shoot out

 

American rapper Rick Ross smashed his Rolls-Royce into an apartment building in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida early this morning while attempting to flee from a drive-by shooting. TMZ is reporting he was the intended target.

According to reports, around 5am Rick Ross and a female companion were leaving a party on Las Olas Boulevard in Fort Lauderdale when a car pulled up along side Rick's dark colored Rolls and opened fire.

Rick swerved to avoid being hit and crashed into an apartment building at SE 15 Avenue.

Neither Rick nor his passenger were hit. Security cameras at a building across the street from the crash were rolling during the incident and cops are hoping the footage will either reveal the identity of the shooter or at least show the vehicle.

See How a Big Thief is Walking Away from Justice

 

Just imagine a man who stole billions of naira (about N23.3 billion) leading to the death of very senior Nigerian citizens (aged pensioners), walking away from the law after paying a paltry N250,000.

My ex husband didn't love me this way

 

From a AAB reader:

My marriage ended in 2008 after 9 years and four kids because my ex and I just couldn't make it work. The best part of it all was that we managed to remain friends after we parted ways. We see each other often because of our kids and over the years we've become quite close. If you see us together you would never guess we were divorced. I never thought exes could be friends but my relationship with mine has proven me wrong. But there's a problem now. My ex husband met a lady 8 months ago and his attitude totally changed after then. He doesn't come to the house as often as he used to, doesn't see his kids as often as he used to, doesn't call me anymore..and when he eventually shows up at my house all he talks about is her. He's moved her into his home, bought her a Mercedes and taken her on two romantic trips abroad, all in 8 months.

What am I complaining about, you may wonder? Well I was with him for 13 years and gave him four children and he never ever for once took me on a romantic trip abroad. Not once in 13 years.

Just two nights ago, he told me that he's never loved anyone as much as he loves this woman and is planning to pop the question this valentine. 

I was with him for 13 years, 4 years dating and 9 years married and he's never loved anyone as much as he loves this woman he met 8 months ago? I know you read this blog occasionally J, thank you!

Oh dear!

Police pension boss jailed 2yrs for stealing N23.3bn freed on N250k fine

 

An Abuja High Court today sentenced a former head of the Police Pension Board, Mr Yakubu Yusuf, to two years in prison after he pleaded guilty to embezzling N2billion of police pension fund.

But guess what? Mr Yusuf was given an option of N250 thousand to avoid the jail sentence. He was also asked to forfeit property valued at N325 million.

The former assistant director in the federal civil service was one of the six people tried for stealing N32.8 billion of police pension fund. Naija, we hail thee!!!

N10.6 trillion wasted fund: FG takes on former minister, Ezekwesili

 

The Federal Government, yesterday, reacted to comments by the former Minister of Education, Dr. Obiageli Ezekwesili, alleging that the governments of presidents Umaru Musa Yar’Adua and Goodluck Jonathan, squandered $67 billion in foreign reserve, describing the allegation as “outlandish and clearly fictitious”.

Minister of Information, Mr Labaran Maku who addressed a press conference in response to some of the allegations raised by the former Vice President (African Region) of the World Bank said the damning verdict passed on the education sector by Mrs Ezekwesili was a self-indictment as she presided over the sector without making any positive impact on it.

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Why I Started Sleeping with Another Man; Married Lady Confesses

 

I’ve been married 10 years but my husband behaves like he’s 90 years old and we haven’t had sex in a long time. Now I’ve found someone better than him and want more. Am I to be blame?

I’m 36 and a primary school teacher. My husband is 38 and works in IT. We’ve got two girls aged 11 and nine and have been married for nearly 12 years.

For the last year or two it’s been grim. My husband bores and irritates me half to death. I’m sick of the tedious grind of the classroom and the even worse grind back at home.

I was so uptight I almost exploded with rage when the head teacher said we had an extra staff meeting after school to talk about our OFSTED inspection. I moaned to a colleague at break time. He’s the only man on the staff and he teaches the children PE.

He’s gorgeous and sexy and we always got on well, but I thought out of bounds to a mother like me.

I phoned my husband to say I’d be late, he said ok. In the end the head teacher had to deal with an emergency with a student with family problems so the meeting was off after all. I looked at my colleague and to my surprise he just smiled and said, “Fancy a drink?”

I didn’t think twice. We went to a pub down the road and I felt almost sick with excitement. I think we both knew that we both wanted more than a drink.

We chatted over a glass of wine and he told me his marriage was pretty much dead. He’s got two little boys and he loves them to bits, but he’s bored with his wife and is desperate for change.

We finished our drinks and had sex in his car before heading for home. No one suspected a thing. We’re in the same boat but we’ve found a way out of the boring routine.

We meet up for sex once a week but the problem now is I’ve fallen in love.

Please what do I do? Should I just call it quits with my husband and move in with my teacher boyfriend?

Rukky Sanda shares holiday photos

 

 

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Henry Okah found guilty of 2010 Independence Day bomb attacks

 

A South African court this morning convicted the leader of the Movement for the Emancipation of the Niger Delta (MEND), Henry Okah, of masterminding twin car bombings during Nigeria's 50th independence celebrations in October 2010 that killed twelve people and injured several others.

He was also found guilty of masterminding the two explosions in Warri in March 2010.

Henry Okah was found guilty on all counts and faces a minimum sentence of life in prison.

I found shameful hubby fondling niece on sofa

I CAUGHT my husband and his niece with their hands all over one another on the settee and it turned out they’d had sex. I can’t get over the sight of them together.

We’re both 55 and our two children are grown up. We worked hard at our own business and our life was very comfortable. We were very close and in love.

Then my husband’s niece suddenly became homeless with two children when her partner left. We invited her to stay with us while she sorted her life out.

It was a grim time but then she started to turn a corner. Around the time of her birthday I decided to cook a celebration dinner for us.

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I was dog-tired afterwards and said I was going to bed. I could hear them chatting then suddenly it went very quiet. I thought they had fallen asleep and went to see.

I can’t tell you my utter shock and disgust when I saw them half undressed and all over each other. I screamed and they jumped apart. We all went to bed after a lot of tears and shouting.

I quizzed them next day and it turned out that they’d had sex the day before. She came to apologise the next day but finally admitted her real issue was she was terrified what would happen if I told anyone.

I kept quiet, she moved out and now has a new partner. We have a large, close family and she now floats around like a saint at family gatherings showing him off. Sometimes I feel like throwing a bombshell into her smugness and telling everyone, but that won’t change what happened.

My husband is sorry and ashamed but he won’t talk about it, which is difficult because we work together. We’re like robots. It’s six months on and I still can’t get over it.

See Why Most Men Fall Asleep After Having Sex

 

It’s a problem that leaves many women, especially house wives, frustrated most nights. But scientists have given men an excuse for sleeping immediately after sex.

Men cannot help but fall asleep straight after indulging in sexual activity because their brains are ordering them to do so, a new study has revealed.

In the research, scientists have claimed the male brain is programmed to switch off after Orgasm. In contrast, women stay alert so are more likely to be left staring at the ceiling in frustration.

Men were scanned during and after climax and it was found that the entire cerebral cortex, the brain’s “thinking” part, shut down during orgasm.

Then two other areas, the cingulate cortex and amygdala, triggered the deactivation of all sexual desire.

“These experiments give us the first hints as to what happens in the brain during orgasm,” the Mirror quoted Serge Stoleru, a French government -scientist, as saying.

“For women it seems to be different,” he said. Stoleru said that women do not have such a strong refractory period – which is a recovery phase when the body calms down.

That leaves them wondering why their partners have lost all interest when they want more of it.

Jonathan appoints Vanguard GM UNILAG’s Governing Council member

They include the University of Lagos, UNILAG; Federal University of Agriculture, Umuduike; University of Benin, Benin and the Obafemi Awolowo, Ile Ife.

Those appointed for UNIBEN include Senator Effiong Dickson Bob, Chairman; Jamila Fakik, member; J.K.A Gazama, SAN, member; Chief Samuel Edohoeket, member and Arch Shettima Mohammed Sale, also member.

Those appointed for the University of Lagos are Prof Jerry Gana, Chairman; Dr. Monday Ohoni, member; Igwe Chris Onyekwuluje, member; Dr. Garba Usman Tetenji, SAN, member; and the General Manager/ Editor- in- Chief of Vanguard Newspaper, Mr Gbenga Adefaye, member.
Members of the council for the University of Agriculture, Umudike, Abia State include Prof. Anya O. Anya, chairman;  Chief Chris Iroegbe, member; Rasheed Kola Ojikutu, Ph.D, member; and Mr Akinboro Muyiwa, member. The Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, has Prof. Rowland Ndoma-Egba, chairman; Moses Otazi, member; Omoyele Daniel, member; Hon Tijjani Goni Guzamala, member and Sunday Ibrahim Ameh, SAN, member.
According to a statement signed by the Secretary to the Government of the Federation, SGF, Senator Anyim Pius Anyim; each university governing council shall also include the Vice Chancellor, Deputy Vice Chancellors; one person selected from the  Federal Ministry of Education; four persons appointed by the Senate from its members, two persons appointed by the Congregation among its members and one person appointed by Convocation among its members.